He That Looketh

By Ella Wheeler Wilcox

    Yea, she and I have broken God's command,          And in His sight are branded with our shame.          And yet I do not even know her name,     Nor ever in my life have touched her hand     Or brushed her garments.    But I chanced to stand          Beside her in the throng!    A sweet, swift flame          Shot from her flesh to mine -and hers the blame     Of willing looks that fed it; aye, that fanned     The glow within me to a hungry fire.          There was an invitation in her eyes.          Had she met mine with coldness or surprise,     I had not plunged on headlong in the mire     Of amorous thought.    The flame leaped high and higher;          Her breath and mine pulsated into sighs,          And soft glance melted into glance kiss-wise,     And in God's sight both yielded to desire.

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Poem Details

Language: English
Keywords: Public Domain
Source: Public Domain Collection
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Analysis & Notes:
The poem is a poignant exploration of guilt, desire, and the power of unnamed, unspoken attraction. It begins with a confession of having broken a divine command, implying a moral transgression. However, the speaker quickly clarifies that the relationship with the unnamed woman is not physical but rather an intense emotional connection ignited by a simple glance. This reveals the theme of the power of human attraction and the moral complexity that can arise from such connections, even in their most innocent form.

The poem's tone is a blend of regret, defiance, and longing, reflecting the speaker's internal conflict. The structure, a sonnet, traditionally used to express deep feelings of love, reinforces this emotional turmoil. The poem is rich in metaphors, with the "sweet, swift flame" and the "hungry fire" symbolizing the overwhelming passion that came from a simple glance. The use of fire also serves to underscore the destructive potential of their attraction. The imagery of "soft glance melted into glance kiss-wise" conveys the intensity of their silent communication, suggesting a level of intimacy that transcends physical contact. The final line loops back to the initial admission of guilt, reminding the reader of the moral implications even as the poem revels in the beauty of their connection. This creates a tension that lingers beyond the last line, leaving the reader to grapple with their own interpretation of love, desire, and morality.

Understanding the Sonnet

The sonnet is one of the most enduring and celebrated forms of poetry, known for its strict structure and profound themes. With a history spanning centuries, sonnets have been used to explore love, beauty, politics, and mortality, all within the confines of just 14 lines.


Sonnets are characterized by their precise form and rhyme scheme, which vary depending on the type of sonnet. Here’s a closer look:

  • Shakespearean (English) Sonnet: Composed of three quatrains followed by a final couplet, with a rhyme scheme of ABABCDCDEFEFGG. This form often builds a complex argument or narrative, culminating in a powerful closing statement.
  • Petrarchan (Italian) Sonnet: Divided into an octave (eight lines) and a sestet (six lines), with a typical rhyme scheme of ABBAABBA for the octave, followed by various patterns in the sestet such as CDECDE or CDCDCD. The octave usually presents a problem, with the sestet providing a resolution.
  • Meter: Sonnets are traditionally written in iambic pentameter, which gives the poem a rhythmic and melodic quality that enhances its emotional impact.

The sonnet’s enduring appeal lies in its ability to condense complex emotions and ideas into a small but potent package, making it a favorite form for poets seeking to explore profound themes with precision and elegance.