Grief

By Ella Wheeler Wilcox

    As the funeral train with its honoured dead          On its mournful way went sweeping,     While a sorrowful nation bowed its head          And the whole world joined in weeping,     I thought, as I looked on the solemn sight,          Of the one fond heart despairing,     And I said to myself, as in truth I might,          "How sad must be this SHARING."     To share the living with even Fame,          For a heart that is only human,     Is hard, when Glory asserts her claim          Like a bold, insistent woman;     Yet a great, grand passion can put aside          Or stay each selfish emotion,     And watch, with a pleasure that springs from pride,          Its rival - the world's devotion.     But Death should render to love its own,          And my heart bowed down and sorrowed     For the stricken woman who wept alone          While even her DEAD was borrowed;     Borrowed from her, the bride - the wife -          For the world's last martial honour,     As she sat in the gloom of her darkened life,          With her widow's grief fresh upon her.     He had shed the glory of Love and Fame          In a golden halo about her;     She had shared his triumphs and worn his name:          But, alas! he had died without her.     He had wandered in many a distant realm,          And never had left her behind him,     But now, with a spectral shape at the helm,          He had sailed where she could not find him.     It was only a thought, that came that day          In the midst of the muffled drumming     And funeral music and sad display,          That I knew was right and becoming     Only a thought as the mourning train          Moved, column after column,     Bearing the dead to the burial plain          With a reverence grand as solemn.

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Poem Details

Language: English
Keywords: Public Domain
Source: Public Domain Collection
Rights/Permissions: Public Domain

Analysis & Notes:
This poem resonates with themes of loss, grief, love, fame, and the impersonal nature of death. It presents a poignant contemplation of a nation's grief contrasted with the intimate sorrow of a widow, thus creating an intimate portrait of shared mourning that is both public and intensely personal.

The tone of the poem is solemn and mournful, reflecting the gravity of death and the shared sorrow of a nation. The structure of the poem serves to emphasize this tone, with its consistent rhythm and rhyme scheme creating a sombre, measured pace that mirrors the procession of the 'funeral train.'

The poet skillfully uses poignant metaphors and vivid imagery to portray the widow's grief and solitude. The deceased is described as 'borrowed' from the widow by death, a striking metaphor that communicates the powerlessness of the living in the face of death. This sense of isolation and despair is further emphasized through the depiction of the widow sitting 'in the gloom of her darkened life,' a powerful image that presents her grief as an encompassing darkness.

Furthermore, the poet employs an intriguing contrast between the personal and public dimensions of mourning. While the public grieves for the lost 'glory' and 'martial honor,' the widow mourns the loss of her husband and the shared experiences and love that have been irrevocably lost to her. This juxtaposition serves to highlight the profound disparity between public and private grief, and the unique and irreplaceable nature of personal loss.

In conclusion, this poem presents a deeply moving exploration of grief, loss, and love. Through its evocative imagery, poignant metaphors, and thoughtful contrasts, it offers a profound contemplation of the shared yet deeply personal nature of mourning.

Understanding Elegy

An elegy is a form of poetry that expresses sorrow or lamentation, often for someone who has died. This type of poetry serves as a tribute to the deceased, reflecting on their life and the grief left behind.


Elegies are deeply emotional and personal, exploring themes of loss, mourning, and remembrance. Here are some defining characteristics:

  • Mournful Tone: Elegies are characterized by a tone of sadness and reflection, as the poet grapples with the pain of loss.
  • Tribute to the Deceased: The subject of an elegy is often someone who has passed away, with the poem serving as a memorial that honors their life and legacy.
  • Personal Reflection: Elegies often include personal reflections on the impact of the deceased on the poet's life, as well as broader musings on mortality and the human condition.
  • Structure and Form: While elegies can vary in form, they often follow a traditional structure that includes an expression of grief, praise for the deceased, and a sense of consolation or acceptance.

From ancient times to the present, elegies have provided a way for poets to navigate the complexities of grief and loss, offering solace and a means of preserving the memory of those who have passed.