Dell And I

By Ella Wheeler Wilcox

         In a mansion grand, just over the way         Lives bonny, beautiful Dell;          You may have heard of this lady gay,         For she is a famous belle.          I live in a low cot opposite -         You never have heard of me;          For when the lady moon shines bright,         Who would a pale star see?     But ah, well! ah, well!    I am happier far than Dell,         As strange as that may be.          Dell has robes of the richest kind -         Pinks and purples and blues;          And she worries her maid and frets her mind         To know which one to choose.          Which shall it be now, silk or lace?         In which will I be most fair?          She stands by the mirror with anxious face,         And her maid looks on in despair.     Ah, well! ah, well!    I am not worried, you see, like Dell,         For I have but one to wear.          Dell has lovers of every grade,         Of every age and style;          Suitors flutter about the maid,         And bask in her word and smile.          She keeps them all, with a coquette's art,         As suits her mood or mirth,          And vainly wonders if in one heart         Of all true love has birth.     Ah, well! ah, well!    I never question myself like Dell,         For I know a true heart's worth.          Pleasure to Dell seems stale and old,         Often she sits and sighs;          Life to me is a tale untold,         Each day is a glad surprise.          Dell will marry, of course, some day,         After her belleship is run;          She will cavil the matter in worldly way         And wed Dame Fortune's son     But, ah, well! sweet to tell, I shall not dally and choose like Dell,         For I love and am loved by - one.

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Poem Details

Language: English
Keywords: Public Domain
Source: Public Domain Collection
Rights/Permissions: Public Domain

Analysis & Notes:
The poem presents a compelling exploration of the themes of social class, envy, and the distinction between outward appearance and inner contentment. The speaker, ostensibly of a lower socioeconomic status than the "famous belle," Dell, uses a narrative structure to contrast their lived experiences and internal states. The tone shifts from apparent envy in the beginning to a more self-assured, contented declaration of personal happiness by the end.

The poem’s structure is defined by its repeating refrain, "Ah, well! ah, well!" that punctuates the speaker's musings on Dell's life. This refrain, alongside the straightforward ABAB rhyme scheme, lends a musical, almost sing-song quality to the poem, making the speaker's observations and subsequent assertions feel more like a casual, conversational comparison rather than a bitter critique. The speaker employs vivid imagery and contrasts to emphasize the differences between their own life and Dell's, further painting a picture of Dell's opulence and the speaker's simplicity. Irony is a key literary device used, especially in the reveal that the speaker is "happier far than Dell," despite the latter's material wealth and popularity. This twist underscores the poem's theme that wealth and social status do not necessarily equate to happiness, and that true contentment comes from knowing one's own worth and the value of genuine love.

Understanding Ballads

A ballad is a form of verse, often a narrative set to music, that has been a cornerstone of storytelling across various cultures. Traditionally passed down orally, ballads are known for their rhythmic structure and often tell tales of love, adventure, and heroism.


Ballads are characterized by their strong rhythm and repetition, making them both memorable and engaging. Here are some defining features:

  • Narrative Structure: Ballads typically tell a story, often a dramatic or emotional tale that unfolds in a straightforward, chronological order.
  • Quatrain Stanzas: Most ballads are composed of quatrains (four-line stanzas) with a rhyme scheme of ABAB or ABCB, which adds to the musicality of the verse.
  • Repetition: Refrains or repeated lines are common in ballads, helping to emphasize key themes or emotions and making the ballad easier to remember.
  • Oral Tradition: Many ballads originated from oral traditions, which means they were passed down through generations by word of mouth before being written down.

From medieval minstrels to contemporary songwriters, ballads have continued to evolve, remaining a beloved form of expression that captures the human experience in a way that is both poetic and accessible.