A Man's Ideal

By Ella Wheeler Wilcox

    A lovely little keeper of the home,     Absorbed in menu books, yet erudite     When I need counsel; quick at repartee     And slow to anger.    Modest as a flower,     Yet scintillant and radiant as a star.     Unmercenary in her mould of mind,     While opulent and dainty in her tastes.     A nature generous and free, albeit     The incarnation of economy.     She must be chaste as proud Diana was,     Yet warm as Venus.    To all others cold     As some white glacier glittering in the sun;     To me as ardent as the sensuous rose     That yields its sweetness to the burrowing bee     All ignorant of evil in the world,     And innocent as any cloistered nun,     Yet wise as Phryne in the arts of love     When I come thirsting to her nectared lips.     Good as the best, and tempting as the worst,     A saint, a siren, and a paradox.

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Language: English
Keywords: Public Domain
Source: Public Domain Collection
Rights/Permissions: Public Domain

Analysis & Notes:
This poem presents a complex yet enchanting portrayal of the woman it describes, combining mythological, religious and natural imagery to create an intimate, multi-faceted character study. The structure of the poem, featuring a series of contrasting characteristics, highlights the subject as a paradox, at once a "saint," a "siren," a dutiful homemaker, a scholar, a seductress, an innocent, and a sage.

The poet employs rich metaphors and similes to describe the woman, depicting her as “Modest as a flower,” “radiant as a star,” and “chaste as proud Diana was, yet warm as Venus.” This use of natural and mythical comparisons gives depth to the subject's character, emphasizing her purity, allure, wisdom, and complexity. The tone of the poem is one of admiration and love, but also of awe at the woman's multifaceted nature. This combination of reverence and desire underscores the theme of paradox, presenting the subject as a woman of unique, seemingly contradictory attributes. The poem is a testament to the complexities of womanhood and an appreciation of the subject's individuality, a celebration of the beautiful contradictions that make her who she is.