In Memoriam

By Harriet Annie Wilkins

        They are gone away,     No prayers could avail us to longer keep     The ships called out on the unknown deep,     We saw them sail off, some lingeringly,     Some suddenly summoned put out to sea;     They stepped aboard, and the planks were drawn in,     But their sweet, pale faces were free from sin;     As they turned to whisper one last good bye,     We sent after each one a bitter cry;         We knew on that track,         They would never come back,         By night or day.         Ah, we've closed dear eyes,     But God be thanked that they, one and all,     Had the heaven light touch them before the pall;     They saw the fair land that we could not see,     And one said, "Jesus is standing by me,"     And one, "The water of life I hear,"     And one, "There's no suffering nor sorrow here,"     One, "I have seen the city of countless charms,"     One, "'Neath me are the Everlasting Arms,"              So we know it is best,              They should be at rest,              In God's paradise.              Mary's Blessed Son,     Thou wilt not chide if thou see'st that low     Our harps are hanging on willow bough;     We would not murmur, we know it is well,     They are gone from the battle, the shot and shell,     And in our anguish we're not alone;     The Father knows all the grief we have known;     Oh God, who once heard the Christ's bitter cry,     Thou knowest what we feel when we see them die.              Our light, has been hid              By the coffin lid,              And dark our noon.              God hears our moan,     He knows how a stricken heart had said,     "Oh, number her not with the silent dead,     For if she stays watching the golden sea,     God help, for what will become of me?     The last rose out of my childhood's bower,     From my English garden, the last sweet flower;     Take me instead, for none call me mother."     The messenger said, "I take no other."         So she went the road         The others have trod,         And I am alone.         We shall meet again;     I fancy sometimes how they talk together,     Of the way they travelled, the stormy weather     That beat so hard on their pilgrim road,     Now changed for the city of their God;     I wonder if in their special home,     They keep choice rooms till their darlings come.     Saviour, who loves them, protect and guide me     Where they are waiting 'neath life's fadeless tree,         Father and mother,         And elder brother,         And sisters twain.

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Poem Details

Language: English
Keywords: Public Domain
Source: Public Domain Collection
Rights/Permissions: Public Domain

Analysis & Notes:
This poem is a profound meditation on loss, grief, and faith. The central themes revolve around the departure of beloved individuals, possibly due to death, and the process of mourning their absence. The poem imbues this experience with a strong religious undertone, offering a perspective of hope and reunion in the afterlife.

The poem's structure is consistent, with a rhythm that carries the reader through a journey of sorrow and eventual acceptance. Each stanza ends with a refrain that underscores the feelings of loss and longing, creating a melancholy tone that permeates the entire piece. Yet, the poem also employs a notable progression from despair to hope, as seen in the transition from the first stanza's "they would never come back" to the final stanza's "we shall meet again."

The use of metaphor and imagery is striking and evocative. The ships sailing away into the unknown deep symbolize the departed souls embarking on their journey to the afterlife. The references to "the golden sea," "the city of their God," and "life's fadeless tree" paint a vivid picture of a heavenly paradise, offering consolation amid the sorrow.

In terms of literary devices, the poet uses apostrophe, directly addressing entities such as "Mary's Blessed Son" and "God," which underscores the religious theme. The poignant metaphor of harps hanging on a willow bough encapsulates the mourners' sorrow, with the willow traditionally symbolizing grief and the harps representing silenced joy.

Overall, the poem is a touching exploration of deeply human experiences—loss, grief, faith, and hope. It is a testament to the pain of parting, the resilience of the human spirit, and the comfort offered by faith in an eternal reunion.

Understanding Elegy

An elegy is a form of poetry that expresses sorrow or lamentation, often for someone who has died. This type of poetry serves as a tribute to the deceased, reflecting on their life and the grief left behind.


Elegies are deeply emotional and personal, exploring themes of loss, mourning, and remembrance. Here are some defining characteristics:

  • Mournful Tone: Elegies are characterized by a tone of sadness and reflection, as the poet grapples with the pain of loss.
  • Tribute to the Deceased: The subject of an elegy is often someone who has passed away, with the poem serving as a memorial that honors their life and legacy.
  • Personal Reflection: Elegies often include personal reflections on the impact of the deceased on the poet's life, as well as broader musings on mortality and the human condition.
  • Structure and Form: While elegies can vary in form, they often follow a traditional structure that includes an expression of grief, praise for the deceased, and a sense of consolation or acceptance.

From ancient times to the present, elegies have provided a way for poets to navigate the complexities of grief and loss, offering solace and a means of preserving the memory of those who have passed.