In Memory Of Charles Wentworth Upham, Jr

By Oliver Wendell Holmes

    He was all sunshine; in his face     The very soul of sweetness shone;     Fairest and gentlest of his race;     None like him we can call our own.     Something there was of one that died     In her fresh spring-time long ago,     Our first dear Mary, angel-eyed,     Whose smile it was a bliss to know.     Something of her whose love imparts     Such radiance to her day's decline,     We feel its twilight in our hearts     Bright as the earliest morning-shine.     Yet richer strains our eye could trace     That made our plainer mould more fair,     That curved the lip with happier grace,     That waved the soft and silken hair.     Dust unto dust! the lips are still     That only spoke to cheer and bless;     The folded hands lie white and chill     Unclasped from sorrow's last caress.     Leave him in peace; he will not heed     These idle tears we vainly pour,     Give back to earth the fading weed     Of mortal shape his spirit wore.     "Shall I not weep my heartstrings torn,     My flower of love that falls half blown,     My youth uncrowned, my life forlorn,     A thorny path to walk alone?"     O Mary! one who bore thy name,     Whose Friend and Master was divine,     Sat waiting silent till He came,     Bowed down in speechless grief like thine.     "Where have ye laid him?" "Come," they say,     Pointing to where the loved one slept;     Weeping, the sister led the way, -     And, seeing Mary, "Jesus wept."     He weeps with thee, with all that mourn,     And He shall wipe thy streaming eyes     Who knew all sorrows, woman-born, -     Trust in his word; thy dead shall rise!     April 15, 1860.

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Language: English
Keywords: Public Domain
Source: Public Domain Collection
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Analysis & Notes:
This poem is a poignant exploration of loss, grief, and eventual hope. The tone is deeply melancholic, but it also carries a soft undertone of solace and assurance. The poet sketches a vivid portrait of a much-loved individual in the opening stanzas, using rich imagery to depict their warmth and sweetness. The language suggests a tender nostalgia and a profound sense of loss.

In the middle stanzas, the poem delves deeper into the theme of sorrow, using the metaphor of dusk and twilight to symbolize the waning life. There's a striking contrast between the vibrant descriptions of the loved one's living moments and the stark, cold depiction of their earthly remains. However, instead of dwelling on despair, the poem transitions towards hope and faith in the final stanzas. Drawing on biblical parallels, the poet offers comfort in the belief of resurrection and divine compassion.

The poem follows a consistent structure with regular rhymes, lending a rhythmic flow to the narrative. The use of direct speech in the last few stanzas adds a dramatic touch and brings the message of hope alive. This poem is a compelling blend of emotive language, vivid imagery, and spiritual solace, offering a bittersweet exploration of human mortality and the eternal cycle of life and death.

Understanding Elegy

An elegy is a form of poetry that expresses sorrow or lamentation, often for someone who has died. This type of poetry serves as a tribute to the deceased, reflecting on their life and the grief left behind.


Elegies are deeply emotional and personal, exploring themes of loss, mourning, and remembrance. Here are some defining characteristics:

  • Mournful Tone: Elegies are characterized by a tone of sadness and reflection, as the poet grapples with the pain of loss.
  • Tribute to the Deceased: The subject of an elegy is often someone who has passed away, with the poem serving as a memorial that honors their life and legacy.
  • Personal Reflection: Elegies often include personal reflections on the impact of the deceased on the poet's life, as well as broader musings on mortality and the human condition.
  • Structure and Form: While elegies can vary in form, they often follow a traditional structure that includes an expression of grief, praise for the deceased, and a sense of consolation or acceptance.

From ancient times to the present, elegies have provided a way for poets to navigate the complexities of grief and loss, offering solace and a means of preserving the memory of those who have passed.